Do you have issue figuring out what you want? Sometimes you did figure…and then it was not?
Can you really figure what you want?
When it comes to knowing what you want…you would generally pass through 3 possible stages.
1. You never thought about it. (So you start thinking)
2. You think you know what you want… (You thought hard enough)
3. You don’t think you wanted that. (You want something else)
So what exactly is going on…? Can this be simplified? Explained or solved?
Well Allan Watts explained it as follows:
“Why don’t you know what you really want?…
1. You have it. (Within you)
2. You don’t know yourself…because you never can.”
Spine chillin…Goosy bumpy? Yes! It happens when you venture into the unknown world. (was marked out of syllabus for you)
If you are not 40 yet…you will soon be. If you passed 40 you may be feeling “cheated”… But did someone really cheat you?
All you wanted was a comfortable retirement…(After you chased success)
It was always the next grade… the next degree… the next job… the next appraisal or the next year and at the end all you wanted was “comfortable retirement”.
So there you have it…Its time for retirement! You are old, done with whatever you had to do and its over…comfortable or not!
You wanted it and you have it. No body cheated you…
Get the idea?
Life is like music my friend…Play It. Don’t work it!
Find what you like and do it more! Don’t worry if this or that was what you really wanted…move on.
I know what you are thinking…(You will never become expert of anything…right?)
Just ask yourself…You have been in this for how long? again… (Got the answer?)
Good!
There is no harm in searching “What you want” and you should…
It will never come to you on its own… so go out looking. Today! Now!
As they say “Life is a journey” (Play it)
But remember to say “woohoo” at the end and you LIVED it. 🙂
Watch this video below…. I think it summarizes well what we have going on here.